One Shining Moment

A rare occurence..a blog post

2011-09-22T04:30:00.000-07:00

Well I wrote this a month ago and just barely posted it...I kind of want to blog again so we will see.Once again it has been a while....Needless to say. Everyday I continue to feel so blessed to have my sweet little Macie and Rocco. They sure give us a run for our money to get here but they are so perfect for us. Rocco continues to me witty, charming, a firecracker, handsome, and SPOILED. He has had an action packed summer from boating, hiking, jetskiing,swimming, and wave jumping in florida. Life is full of fun for him. He will start preschool again soon and is excited about that. We have a few behaviors we are working on but that goes with the territory of being a mom. Macie is almost 7 months and is the princess of all. We love having the sweetness she brings to us. She is gobbling up her baby food, rolling around to reach for those rattles and dollies. She can sit by herself for a little and is getting ready to go soon in her crawling form. She delights in her big brother Rocco. He truly has been so kind to her and just adores her. He gets a little nervous when it is 8:15 am and she is still sleeping. He says, "Mom, doesn't Macie know its morning." He is an early bird like 6:50 so waiting to greet her for over an hour seems like an eternity. He insisted the other morning she needed a wake up call. We have been very busy this summer with a long trip home to utah, a trip to south beach florida, and visits from the bechts and grandpa and grandma Sparks. JonDavid is keeping busy with work and is happy to have played a few rounds of golf this summer. For myself I enjoy the quiet moments to myself when they come around and working on getting back to my classes at the YMCA I am finally creating some plans to decorate and paint the kids rooms.Enjoying Indy more and more especially our neighborhood and having our own home. Love to all my blogging buddies from home and Iowa. I miss you all!! Looking forward to fall and football.

South Beach Florida~Espanola Way

March Madness at the Sparks

2011-03-20T19:44:00.000-07:00

I can't believe Macie is a little over 2 months. It breaks my heart that she is growing up so fast before my eyes. I just looked at her in the car seat and realized how big she is. I'm really trying to soak every minute with her in. She is such a good girl and I just love her to pieces. I went on my first outing to church without her and I couldn't wait to get back to her after only 2 hours of being apart. Rocco just adores Macie. He gives her lots of kisses. Macie loves to look around for Rocco.She is really captivated by him. I think they are already great pals. Rocco is all ready looking out for his "sis" He gets real nervous if anyone touches her baby gear. We have been spending our days eating, changing diaper, and enjoying each other. Macie is now quite the social butterfly with her smiles. She loves sucking on her "handsicles" and occasionally makes a little coo or squawk at us.She is also intrigued by all of the basketball games and looking at her toys and mobile. Grandpa Andersen came for a quick trip and we loved spending time with grandpa. JD's parents are out next week. Here are some pics...They are a little dated by 2 weeks or so. But at this age she is changing so much. At two months Macie weighed 10.0 so she is just doing great. On a side note we have been watching lots of march madness and are thrilled to see the Butler Bulldogs in the final four. They sure have been a fun team to follow. FYI I cut about 9 inches off my hair...It feels great!! Its now to my chin.

Macie Ora Sparks

2011-01-30T09:10:00.000-08:00

Macie Ora Sparks

7 pounds 8 ounces

January 22, 2011

8:41 am

19 1/4 length

After the Bath!!

Chubby little

girls!!

All cleaned off right after delivery

Bedrest Beauty...I made it to 37 weeks 2 days!!

We are so happy baby Macie has arrived. She was born last Saturday January 22,2011 at 8:41 am. She weighed 7 pounds 8 ounces and is 19 1/4 inches long with blondish brown fuzzy hair. She is perfect and the most precious gift from above!!! We are so blessed and in love with her and big brother Rocco.

We can't wait for him to meet Macie to get to come home from the NICU. No kids allowed in the NICU in the winter season. She has been in a week and has resolved her high respiratory rate which was the reason she was admitted. She is also working on lowering her biliruben level and feeding. The last 3 nights she has began to gain weight. She dropped down to 6.12. The last few days she has had "bradycardias" where she drops her heart rate and oxygen saturation. The dr wants her to go 5 days without a "brady" before she can come home. Her last on was on saturday at about 4 pm. So we pray for her to continue to develop and grow. Macie was delivered with a c section.I went off of terbutaline pump on Thursday at noon and Friday I felt yucky all day. The dr said if I had 6 contractions in a hour to call. Friday night I was awoken at like 1:00 am with contractions and cramping. I got on my contraction monitor since I still had it. I had more than 6.I called they said to come in. We got there at 4:15 an and I was at a 2. They watched me for 2 hrs and then I was at a 3 and little sister was in a little distress and so they got me all ready for a c section and she was born at 8:41. The C section was fabulous. The recovery after has been pretty good. I had lots of leg swelling from fluids. But over a few days I dropped like 13 pounds of fluid weight. I feel a little tired getting back on my feet I think part of it is from the bedrest. My back and legs are not use to carrying around weight. But one week out and I'm feeling quite good.

Macie's middle name is Ora after my great grandma who I grew up nex to and was my bestest friend. Macie was picked by JonDavid and it was really the only name he liked. Now a week later she looks and seems like a Macie to me.

Holiday Fun and update.

2011-01-05T11:48:00.000-08:00

Opening his presents with his new power tools. He is very dilligent wearing his safety googles
Dad and Rocco on Christmas Eve....

Cookies and Chocolate Milk for santa. Rocc kept going back and saying just one more drink of santas milk. I think it was gone before bed.

Rocco displaying his reindeer food! We hear they love oats and glitter. Sprinkling it out on the Lawn!

Welcome 2011! We are excited for another year. There always seems to be something to make the years interesting. I went in to 2010 not knowing what would come and there was never a dull moment in our family. We had an exciting and quiet Christmas. JD and Rocco went out and picked out our first real christmas tree and adorned with decor. It was a little bottom heavy with decorations. Rocco was a fine decorator.

This was our first christmas with just us. It was great...even though we missed everyone and I was down on the couch. On Christmas Eve JonDavid brought Olive Garden home . We had a yummy dinner and we even turned the recliner up to the table so I could be in on the action. We read the christmas nativity with some photos, sang some carols, read the the night before christmas, rocco opened his new jammies, and lastly sprinkled reindeer food and left cookies for old st. nick. JD wrapped the gifts and I supported him on the couch. Rocco woke up at about 6:30 and he came and laid next to us and then went back to his bed. He shortly looked out his window and came back and said the reindeers ate the food! It was our cue to jump out of bed. He went down the stairs and was greeted by his puppy pillow pet. He said," I've been looking for this." Rocco was thrilled with his loot. workbench with powertools, thomas train track,action star war guys, puzzles, cash register, and 2 trucks! He was quiet all day with his entertainment. Christmas day consisted of breakfast casserole compliments to the chef JD,watching the christmas story fragments over and over, and pork tacos. JD and I kept our presents very minimal this year with all the craziness. He got me some perfume, along with our new laptop,vacuum,dryer....Everything in our house seemed to go at once. Truly my greatest gifts have been all my kind friends who have served our famiy and letting little sister stay put. We are blessed. Those are the true gifts of the season for me. I will always remember the christmas of 2010. I had lots and lots of time to think about the Savior and his life and not once step foot in a store. I don't think its an experience that happens to many but it has been a great blessing to focus on the true meaning of christmas and the amazing gift of life.

We rang in the new year. I slept from 9-11:45 and then tuned in for the final minutes. It was fairly uneventful. Here I sit week 35. All is well. Still on my medicine pump, little sister is still breech, and I think I come off next week at 36 weeks of my pump. So will I go into Labor on Friday, will I hold off a few weeks, or perhaps go until 41 weeks. Time will tell. As of now I will have a csection unless we try to turn her or she turns. But she has been in this position since week 25. Turning her manually makes me nervous...Here are some pics from the holiday season. JD had 10 days off so it was fun to be together and for Rocco to stay home too. Rocco and Dad have become quite the team and are learning lots from each other.

Star Patient

2010-11-21T06:19:00.000-08:00

I wsa more than thrilled to know according to my Dr I was the star patient on Saturday. Apparently everyone was having lots of drama on my floor. I will take the uneventful days. This week started out eventful on monday with my measurment which was 3 cm. So ok, Then I did the glucola drink for gestational diabetes and it cam e back positive. The next morning at 6 am they did an extended test which included a blood draw, drinking the drink, and then 3 more blood draws every hour. I felt so yucky and littly sisters heartbeat didn't like the fasting and drama. Her heartbeat wasn't as responsive so I was on the baby monitor most of the morning. After eating I started feeling better by lunch. Good news t came back negative so I 'm fine. I has some increased contractions on Wed so they increased my medicing. I had a big outing to the lobby for my bedrest suppo group. There were ladies wheeled out on their beds, in recliners, I was in my wheelchair. Hey we will go to support group in any fashion. I'm curious what people think when they see us sitting around in all of our capacities. I got my fingernails painted and heard interesting stories. One gal has been here for 10 weeks. Grandma is loading the airplane as we speak.. Rocco and JD will be so sad. Rocco has been around his grandmas for almost 1 1/2 months since they both came to visit prior to this. This week he will start to go to some friends houses. We are so thankful for great help. Today I'm 28 weeks and 3 days. Looking forward to watching the Macys Thanksgiving Day parade, the dog show, and CNN special on Heroes as we hopefully will celebrate week 29 on Thursady. Roccos entrance day...I'm not going anywhere until for sure 30 weeks. ON monday I will be measured again. I sometimes forget why I'm here and I feel frustrated but I have to keep my perspective and think about little sister and then I feel better. off to my biscuits and gravy!

No news...is good news!

2010-11-13T07:43:00.000-08:00

Things over the last week have been fairly stable. I had a measurement on Monday and I measured 5 cm whcih is totally normal. Whaat a miracle. It wasn't too likely my cervix would get longer. My medicine and bed rest has paid off and I am now at 27weeks and 2 days. IThey will measure again on Monday. It goes to show that this situation is very dynamic and can change in no time. I know we are being watched over and I need to be strong . Even though yesterday My emotions ran high. I knkow i am being blessed. I do seem to have a pattern that starts about 3 in the afternoon and goes through the evening a more contractions and irritability so I have had to get some demand doses of my medicine to reduce the activity. My motherinlaw is still here and I really appreciate her help Rocco continues to be a little more irritable similar to my uterus and now he hasa cold again to go along with the situation. He just got over antibiotics and oral steroids weeks ago. I try not to worry about his health but he is such a small guy I have a hard time letting it go.I have felt so much love this week from visitors . That helps the days go....This week we hada few milestones my Iv was taken out, I graduated from my hospital gown, and have been granted a 30 minute wheelchair ride anda shower. It's been in the 70s here in indy so JD has tbeen takinhg me for a spin and he insists on trying to pop a wheelie with me in the wheelchair which shuold be athrill but it's not.We are all getting along and I just try to remember this is for little sister and I know this time will pass. I need enjoy this quiet time in my lifebecause its a good growing experience. We will be watching the hawks today so hopefully they pull out a victory. lookinf forward to 28 weeks on thursday!!!!!

Greeting from my new home...the hospital. no baby yet!! Hopefully she stays put!

2010-11-06T06:09:00.000-07:00

Well here we go again. I guess I will become a real blog expert since here I sit in the hosptal on bedrest. DeJaVu! This post will mainly be informational so I can get on paper so I won't forget this lovely experience. Someday I need to print off my blog. I guess the tables have turned a liitle from my last blog post. All along I have been watched carefully every 2 weeks by the doctor. At the beginning of October about 23 weeks my cervix had shortneded a little and I was feeliing heaviness and tightness in my belly. Same feelings I felt with Rocco. You never know whats normal because being pregnant your body does all sorts of things. My dr said to start to rest. The next week my cervix shortened a little more still at an ok range but I was contracting during the ultrasound. My Dr was more specific about being off my feey. No more than 45 minutes up and at least an hour down. Luckily after this order my mom flew in for a fun fall trip which turned into only one outing to the pumpkin patch for an hr and atrip to 30 minute trip to Michaels. She was so helpful in keeping me down and managing the house. Not the trip we had planned. I was so sad to see her leave and nervous about how to take care of Rocco and life. I went to the Dr that day she he leftand my cervix had shortened again. So from the Dr again said you really need to get off my feet. Well its easier said the done although I sat from my recliner for the next week giving Roco orders and only getting up for breakfast and lunch. Poor Rocco. I just sat and cried watching the little guy all alone playing and wanting me sit and play and I couldn't. We didn;t get to go on our usually outings.Iknow kids are resilient but it still breaks my heart. JonDavid thought about every scenario about how we can get this to wokr because baby can not come out 25 weeks is too early. We thought about day care, churhc help....The next week our ward was so helpful in finding loving homes for Rocco to go play at. We are so thankful for everyones kindness. We have had some meals brought in and it has been so helpful. Its humbling to ask for help and I truly feel grateful for the love people have gave our family. Well at my appt this week on wed. I actually took Rocco to a friends to play.. He had been tagging along because he does fine but I knew this appt was going to be alittle more intense with extra test...So I went on Wed and I never got to go back home!!!!!!!! My cervix had shortened almost 1cm in one week and I was at 2.8, with contractions, ad funneling...not good signs. I cried...this was way too familiar. All I know is if we cn get this baby a few more weeks it would really be great. Rocco was at 29 weeks, So we scurried to find somewhere for Rocco to sleep. This was the 3rd house he had gone to in one day. What a trooper... He is a little confused. THey checked me in started me on medicine to relax my contractions, steroids for the babies lungs, rhogam shot, fluids, antibiotics for group strep b along with all sort of monitors arond the belly. Well its been almost 3 days. My cervix had shortneded a litte from wed to thursday now at 2.58 last measurement, I'm so blessed little sister is looking healthy inside and weighing about 2.1 which is good. Rocco was only 2.9 at 29 weeks. So if she stays put she will likely be a bigger sister than he was. They put a pump on me like an insulin pumpl that will continually give me medicain to relax my uterus it makes me super shaky and my heart race. But it was wawy better than getting a shot every few hours. Anyways it saturday and I'm still sitting. I don't have tons of contractions just constant uterine irritablility of contractin and getting soft over and over. Its all painless bu its enough action its causing my cervix tochange. So hoefully with my pump and bed rest we can sit a little longer. I'm so thankful for my docotr she has been so vigilant and maybe getting the eidcal care I need this can hold off. Tme will tell. Grandma Sparks was gracious enough to fly out today to hlep for two weeks. We both just felt really really overwhelmed about the next 2 weeks and feel like thes 2 weeks are huge for baby growth . This brought ahuge weight off my sshoulders when she said she could come, I think it will be very good for ROcco. He has been struggling with this. It's hard for him. So I know he will love to have grandma hold him since he ls scared of me. It made me cry when he came to thehospital to see me and he looked strainght and the wall andwould not lok at me. I make him nervous. He finally cracked up when I got up to bathroom and he realized mom had lost her underpants. Sinec these gowns expose your whole back sde. He's coming around... I hope this makes sense. I am going to keep updating this. It gives me an actiivit to keep me busy. Off to my breakfast. I may be granted a shower today. I hope so because I feel super stinky and greasy. My hair does not lok so hot after not showering for a day!!Thanks for your love!!

Welcome Fall and Little Sister in February!

2010-09-29T05:19:00.000-07:00

We are super excited to have a little sister join us.I think everyone in our families including us felt like a little girl would be joining our family. Rocco seems to understand and talks about little sister often. According to him she will be named mam or bannana. This is funny to those of you who have spent any time with Rocco this last summer. I hesitate to buy too much because Rocco has always been such a little fellow... I just don't know what to buy. I think the other day he was in 12-18 month pants and he is 3 1/2. But I keep discovering plenty of cute finds and my Kohls 30% off coupon didn't help out this week. I'm 22 weeks along and all is well, thus far. The doctor is watching me closely and being super conservative so I appreciate that. I go every 2 weeks for an ultrasound and meet with the doctor. They taught JonDavid to give me a shot every week to help prevent preterm labor. He takes great pride in administering these shots and Rocco is super weirded out when dad has on pink latex gloves. I just keep counting my blessings and I am so thankful, every week counts for a little baby inside. We took a family trip to Tuttles Apple orchard a week ago or so. It was a rainy day but we ventured on through the orchard,played in the corn mazes, ate grilled corn,hotdogs, and cider.... We also scored a free carmel apple. It brought me back to our fun orchard adventures at Wilsons Orchard in Iowa City. The apples are so fresh and delicious and a great way to start off the fall.

Rocco didn't want to get in the wagon for a picture. He would rather be pulling the wagon, smashing the apples on the ground, or taking a bite out of every apple he could get his paws on!

Happy Apple Pickers

As the season of fall kicked off here in Indy it has been so so hot. 94 degree temps! So my 6 dollar end of the season target find paid off. The neighborhood pool is closed. So we moved the pool party to our front yard for the neighborhood kids. A great time enjoyed by all. Even if some of the kids were right off the school bus in there school clothes!

Back on the Bloggin Train

2010-08-31T14:24:00.000-07:00

So here I am back on the blog! Once again I find myself so far behind. I guess its a good sign because we have kept ourselves pretty busy this summer. As always I need to play catchup with spring and get the past documented. So lots of posts to come and my classic smileboxes. Back in March we devoted our month to basketball as the Final Four was in Indy. I feel like JD is pretty lucky.... although I'm not much of an athlete my enthusiasm for sports and spectating skills are pretty good. I find myself getting excited for the college "game day" show on Saturday morning this fall on ESPN. Which is an essential in our home on saturdays and I'm ok with that.

Summer News- *We finally moved into our new house I'll post a few pics as requested by many. We are thrilled. We got to pick out all the interior in our house but weren't allowed to change the exterior according to the builders plans. They were sticklers about certain issues. I really loved the floor plan of this model and thats what sold us. Not so thrilled about our hydroseed in the back yard that is a total bust but happy with everything else. We lucked out with great neighbors and lots of kids on the block under age 5! My house pics are terrible....sorry. We have since painted and JD has added 7 new more stylin lights. note to self (never buy 5 gallons of paint without sampling):)

Lazy Summer Days...Notice this little rascal doesn't have his bed set up. He is pretty handy with his Manny Tools I'm surprised he hasn't done it himself. (Notice the big boy underpants on his back side) Way to go Rocco. The folks back home were worried you would go to elementary in his pampers cruisers as he calls them!!

Rocco's Play Room

Family Room

Kitchen

Alright, off to get dinner ready. More super exciting posts to come

Going Private!!

2010-06-09T09:00:00.000-07:00

Hello Blog Readers, I'm going to go private with our blog. If you are a reader from back home or if we have crossed paths somewhere drop your email and I will invite you or leave a comment if we have your email... I'll go private in 2 weeks. Thanks.

A Super Special Birthday Boy #3!

2010-05-17T04:43:00.000-07:00

Bright and Early!

Happy Birthday Rocco

Start your engines we are off to another exciting year with this super special 3 year old! He was up early and ready to roll! He could tell his Birthday had finally arrived when he ran out of his streamer lined door way! He scurried down the hall saying "What's on my door Mom! What is it? What is it" This would have been a big enough thrill but that was only the start. Rocco exclaimed," Wow!Cool!" at 6:40 am as he unveiled his mysterious gift ...(Hot Wheels Big Wheel)... He ran to get his cool shades, put on his new racer cap and he was off to the race track!
This is how we get to celebrate all day today and we couldn't be Happier!
....note as I type this crazy boy just said, Look mom!" and pulled down his pants and ran down the hall in his diaper. That was a first he has never actually managed to get his pants off by himself or done such a crazy stunt! I guess it's about time we ditch the 12 month onesie and diaper. He such a tiny fella. Maybe this is a sign as to how are year will be. Full of firsts and crazier than ever.

Our New Dirt Purchase!!

2010-05-04T04:53:00.000-07:00

We started the house hunt in October....After looking at 68 houses and meeting with 5 builders we finally made our decision. I don't know why we had such a hard time. We are crazy. JD and I both really liked the model homes in this neighborhood so we went for it. We think this will be a great neighborhood for Rocco. He can see his school from our bedroom window. In the beginning of March we signed our lives away on this plot of land and the hammers have been going since. We had lots of fun picking out the interiors of our house. It's been real interesting to follow the construction. Rocco loves stomping around in the dirt and he always goes home with someting he has found on the ground of the construction site.Usually really random objects. It's been an easy process and we have had no problems. We move in mid June!!YEAH!!! The pictures are pretty self explanatory. Currently the brick is on and dry wall is done. This week they bring cabinets and inside trims. Now its getting exciting. Footings! I think thats what my bro called it.
Foundation

Going Up!

Basement

Kitchen

Home Sweet Home

Sponsor Team Rocco Roll at March for Babies 2010!

2010-04-19T13:46:00.001-07:00

I'm so excited for our walk on May 1st. We are proud participants in the March for Babies. If any of you have held a preemie you can't but help donate to such a remarkable cause. These babies are all miracles and little angels. We have 2 weeks to meet our donations. If you can't donate get out and walk at your local March for Babies you will not be let down!

Although, it's almost been 3 yrs that Rocco was born... I often still think of his preemie days and life in the NICU. Those memories came back to me recently when Rocco was in the hospital. I was reminded how blessed we are to have sweet Rocco. I will never forget the lessons I learned as I sat quietly in the NICU with Rocco. I had lots and lots of time to think, ponder, and pray about life. We recognize that there are many families and too many moms and dads that know the heartbreak of having a baby born fighting to survive. Many who are so precious and close to us. My whole heart goes out to these families who have suffered a loss. As a family we are volunteering again this year, so other families like ours don't have to face the issues of prematurity, birth defects, and infant loss.

In the spring of 2008 about 40 of our friends joined our team "Rocco ~n~Roll" and participated in the 6 miles March of Dimes, March for Babies. Last year Just the 3 of us marched in pouring rain in honor of these amazing angels both in Heaven and on Earth . As a team our first year we collected almost $700.00 to donate to the March of Dimes and have continued with great success.In my heart I want to do something to help those who have suffered a loss and for families who have gone through the NICU experience like us. Throughout the walks many emotions overcame me: I feel sad for the loss of loved ones, peace of the knowledge these babies are in Heaven, and happiness knowing I was helping with a great cause. I have been undeniably touched and changed by the mission of the March of Dimes since May 17, 2007. I invite you to walk in your local march for babie and donate to this remarkable cause that has personally impacted my families life through team Rocco Roll 2010!!

The mission of March of Dimes is to improve the health of babies by preventing birth defects, premature birth and infant mortality.

Love, Sarah, JonDavid, and Rocco

Happy Spring!

2010-04-06T08:47:00.000-07:00

I'm getting closer to almost being caught up!! It's worked out alright because our computer memory is full, so I can't download any of my spring photos. I think its time for us to get a lap top. We are a little slow in the tech department. We have no smart phones, we do not text ,and I actually kind of like my big box monitor.The months are going by like a whirlwind. We have been doing lots of exciting things as a family (more to come on that) and are going on a little trip next week to chicago. We have kind of had a little bad luck in Indy in the few 5 months we have lived here. I think I've had the best luck. Maybe we need to wear a little more green...Here's how we stand today

Illnessometer
Rocco sick~ Round 3...feeling crumby today
JD sick~ Round 3..to the doctor today
Sarah~ I've managed to stay healthy taking care of these sicklings

Ticketometer
JD- pulled over 2 times on the same road...2 tickets...$320 dollars in fines
Sarah- pulled over for speeding in school zone...:) No ticket...Lucky me!How did the officer let it slide by? He was sure to let me know not all officers well let me off. phew!

Apartment Disasters
Ant infestation
Water heater blowout
Flooded laundry room
Continual Leak from the roof. I have a pitcher to collect my water and dump it out daily. Our techies just can't manage to solve the problem. Imagine that
Our house smells like a pool hall thanks to all our lovely neighbors.
Counting down the days of our big move in June:)

Things are good. I'm really enjoying my Zumba and Turbo Kick class at the Y. I have never got so excited to exercise. It's great. I know its smilebox overload. But I have some little nieces in Utah who are my smile box fans!!!

Scrap page design created with Smilebox

From Lake Michigan to Daytona Beach

2010-03-14T09:17:00.000-07:00

It was fun to scrapbook these pages this week. It reminded me of the fun times we had on our fall vacation to Florida and our Thanksgiving trip to Michigan to see our Great Friends from school in Iowa Amie and Scott. Spring is on its way and we couldn't be happier.

We have been busy home searching and during the week Rocco and I spend lots of time at the library and our new home the YMCA... He is doing two classes gymastics and swimming. He loves gymnastics! This week he got to do the high balance beam and the mini high bars and work on his "flying W" and stand upside down along the wall. Rocco's latest is saying, "Why Mom" after Everything. I use to always say, "Oh just because." He has now started answering his own question by saying, "just because mom!" Most recently I just answer his question by saying, "Why because I love you thats why!" Then he was little thrown off.

He has had some major sleep issues with early early bird awakenings, protesting naps, and being a night owl. This has gone on for probably for 2 months but the last 3 night he has improved and is coming around. Here is was so sleepy he fell asleept in his high chair at lunch!

Trip to Michgan for Thanksgiving!

Daytona Beach, Florida

Gatorland, Florida

Looking Up!!!Rocco's Home...

2010-02-04T08:32:00.001-08:00

It isn't very often that I have seen Rocco out of commission and let alone for over a week. I'm always surprised how this little 25 pounder is such a fighter. He has been through so much this last week he deserves some sunny days ahead. Rocco has quite the little personality and he let it shine through to all the staff at the hospital.
*Without fail after any sort of treatment Rocco would say to the team, "Thank You. Thank You so much." This is after the fact that he had a tube down his throat to suction the junk out, being poked by needles for the 2nd time for an IV, getting his oxgen taped back on after he yanked it out, so on and so forth.
*Rocco required breathing treatments every 3 hours. Which consits of a cutesy dinosaur mask with a vapor coming out that lasted for about 10 minutes. Pretty non threatning...well not for this guy. He fought this like crazy. A little monster would come out the second he saw the Repiratory Therapist walk in the room. It took 3 adults to tame him. He would flip,pinch,bite,scream, and holler toddler cursings. Here were a few of his utterings
Oh my goodness, Can anybody help me, Please Go Away, I want to go home, Daddy. And when this torture was over he would say thank you. What a kid.

Rocco was on a liquid diet for a while and this was his first bite into a steamin hot blueberry muffin.

An escape from the jail. At this point Rocco had been up well over 24 hours. His body was frazzled from all of the meds and especially the stimulants like albuterol and the steroids. However, he would not give in to sleep. Once he did fall asleep he slept for almost 2 days straight except when they would come in for something.

Rocco loved the hospital food and especially that Sierra Mist with a straw.

Free Ride in the little Red Wagon. Doesn't he look thrilled. Moving from Pediatrics Intensive Care to the General Pediatrics floor.

We were so happy to see Rocco smile again. I missed his smile it had been a few days too long.

Unfortunately It's through crazy experiences like these that I'm reminded how much I sometimes take life for granted. I'm so thankful Rocco is feeling better. I tried to remain upbeat in the hospital but it was super tough. I missed him running around in circles,wiggling his shoulders,scurrying over to deliver hugs and kisses, helping by my side, climbing like a squirrel, and getting into monkey business. Rocco has made HUGE progress with his dinomask. He can now hold it by himself with the mask touching his face. The nurses,doctors, and respritory therapists would be so impresssed. This is unbelievable.

PICU update days 1-3..Rocco

2010-01-31T14:57:00.000-08:00

I thought I would do a quick recap for those who have only been partially filled in..I only have 5 minutes I have to get back to Rocco. I will update this with more detail when time permits

Rocco was admittted to the intensive care for pneumonia and h1n1. He came down with the sickness very quickly. He had a fever of over 103 and very very rapid breathing.
Day 1 Took him to doc said he had ear infection and bronchitis got anitibiotics
That night: Really high feverand rapid breathing
Day 2: Don't trust the doctors diagnosis...reading up on pneumonia, battle with myself if I need to take him back in. Symptoms worsen follow my heart we go to ER at 12:30.
Chest xrays show pneumonia and other symptoms also for h1n1
Transferby ambulance from ER to childrens hopsital ICU....
Rocco is coming along little by little. He has been poked and prodded lots. Its so sad. He keeps asking to go home. It's just like the NICU but worse because he is 2 1/2 and very very fiesty and aware of the situation. He is on lots of antibiotics, tamiflu,steroids,breating treatments...We stay with him all the time unless we can sneak out for 30 minutes to catch our breath.He is being followed by a pulmonologist and ENT. I will update on that later. He will be here for awhile. He has a few hurdles he has to get over before he can go home. If you want our # to the room email me. We have our cell but reception is crappy in room. Hope this makes a little sense.
Rocco is tough, so strong, and brave. He will be ok. But I won't lie it sucks too see him so sick. Although I feel so blessed for the prayers and great care he is getting.

Fall Vacation Catch up!

2010-01-13T11:10:00.001-08:00

This is such a frequent title for my posts...Catch up! I should really just give up all together but I keep naggin at myself to keep it going. Its the best journal keeping I do. So better late than never,riiight! With a few more posts to come we will be all caught up!
We are back from the holidays and life can't get much better( I won't mention the fact we have terrible sleeping issues with our Toddler, I feel like he is a new born..what a joke) Life is good because the Bachelor started this week, idol, I signed up for the health club, and Rocco could go to kids club everyday for 2 hrs. AHHHH! I just might use all those hours...probably not but I'm real excited for these new fitness classes. JonDavid has even committed to losing 10 pounds along with me! That is big.Big time!!
We went to Florida for a week to celebrate JonDavids graduation. It was so much fun. Our hotel were only 25 bucks a night at Disney World and then we headed our way to Daytona for a few nights at a Wyndam resort oceanside. It was so relaxing and enjoyed by all of us. For once JonDavid finally felt like nothing was hanging over his head to finish so he could really relax. Now I'm not so sure it was the best thing for our pocket book but we have no regrets! We went to Hollywood studios and Disney World. It was so fascinating for Rocco. He really does love the world of Disney. Tower of Terror is still such a thrill for me even with an old scruffy man with a bright fanny pack sitting next to me. You never know what you get when you ride. The live shows at Hollywood Studios were full of lights,laughter, and great entertainment.Rocco ran to meet Manny and Mickey. It was priceless. He came home with a new fascination with the Princess and the Frog. Since it was plastered all over the place for promotions. Maybe that will be his first big screen. Rocco and I congo'd our hearts out with Woody at the character parade. I bolted over to Woody when I saw we could join in to make Rocco happy. JD thought I was nuts.
Enjoy the pics...don't mind my extra short bangs...I'm aware. I like to get them a little short and then I don't have to get them cut as often. And these bangs were fresh cut bangs for the trip!

The Move and getting adjusted

2009-12-03T13:34:00.000-08:00

Well, it's been a month now in the big city of Indy! Let's just say we are still not unpacked. I have kind of hit a wall with the decorating and don't know where to start next. We are getting acquainted with the city and the town we live in. There is tons of great shopping,food, and lots to do. Its a very nice town. I have managed to drive in the city and on the busy roads a little. If you know me well that is a big deal because I don't like to drive on big busy roads!! I still have lots of mixed emotions about and it's been a little more difficult than I thought adjusting. It all takes time and I can't complain about all of our great blessings. We are still on the house hunt! JonDavid likes his job he is still doing lots of training and is in meeting for about 3-4 of hours a day. I guess I will explain that he doesn't sit behind the computer all day computing numbers, contrary to what people think. He's collaborating on a medicine for anxiety and depression. I find it pretty cool and like to hear about his days. Rocco and I have been frequenting the story times and one does a craft as an added bonus which Rocco loves. He has a great time meddling in the glue and twisting the tape. Rocco is now 2 1/2! Wow. He is getting as demanding as ever and I don't know where his sassiness came from. He is very skilled at climbing out of his crib and postponing bed time. We now have the Jack-n-the Box syndrome at our house. We did this for 2 hrs last night. What a rascal. We wouldn't know he was out but everytime he climbs out he slams his door shut!! Smart Rocco....Just like when he puts a dice in his mouth or his play money he runs and shows me...Smart Rocco! HE KNOWS...HE KNOWS BETTER! What a kid. We are excited for the upcoming Holidays and this fun time of year! Florida and turkey day posts to come

The Big "D- Day"

2009-11-09T10:25:00.000-08:00

JonDavid survived "D-Day"! His Dissertation Defense and passed with flying colors. I think I was more nervous than he was. It was so intense especially when the audience was able to ask questions. There were lots of super smart people there and my fingers were crossed hoping JonDavid could give a good answer to their questions. I felt so proud of him even though I can honestly say I didn't understand one thing in his 1 hr presentation. I was however able to understand when he mentioned my name as a thanks for encouraging him through out school. Then my ears really perked up. After the commitee met and questioned him some more they then signed their lives away on his disseration to announced he passed. It was the best day. Rocco and I went over and decorated his desk and our house to celebrate the big day. We had a great lunch at applebees and stroll at the park. I guess living with JonDavid I know first hand the hard work he has put forth over the last 5 yrs. Not only at school but at home. He is always willing to help out with Rocco and especially with our night owls awakenings that occurred in Rocco's first 18 months of life. Once again, Congrats to JonDavid.

Go Diego Go!

2009-10-26T12:56:00.000-07:00

Happy Halloween!! Rocco finally decided he could be Diego this year for Halloween. If Diego only knew what a real privilege it is for him that Rocco was ok to dress up as the adventurer. He refused all the other costumes we brought home. He was very content with our home made costume with the odds and ends from the toy box. We had a a chance to celebrate a little early at the church trunk or treat... since we will be basking in the sun in Florida on Halloween!

Mega Post!!

2009-10-15T11:03:00.000-07:00

Holy Cow! I finally feel caught up. I've been talking about this for months and this post is a smile box overload from the summer. Smile Boxes are the most efficient way for me to post because then I have them for my scrapbook. Sorry if you think they are annoying.

I can't believe how fast time is going. We move 2 weeks from today. We have been having a great time taking in our last days in Iowa. I keep getting choked up everytime I drive up Hawkins Drive onto campus. Ridiculous. We went to Indy househunting and left Rocco with some of our super kind friends. The most I have ever been away from Rocco was once or twice time for like 4 hours and he has only been baby sat a handful of times. He's really my sidekick! I was so sad to leave him behind and last minute I thought oh lets just take him. I'm so glad we didn't... it would have been disastrous. We looked at about 45 homes for 2 1/2 days straight. House overload!! We have decided to rent for 6 months to figure out where we really want to be! Best of all we got back and all parties survived. I think Rocco was confused he started calling the swensons mom and dad. I'm glad he felt at home.

The last month or so was also packed full with a visit from Mom. I only have one picture because my camera is broke. We had lots of fun stamping,touring the local sites, and eating plenty of pastries and take out. My moms specialties, which I love.

Last but not least we have been soaking in as many hawkeye festivites as we can before we head out of hawkeye country. We went to a Pep Rally the night before the first game. I can't believe the looks we got for having Rocco there. People were in Awe. Have they never seen a 2 yr old.... Rocco and the other 3 kids out of the thousands of student loved every second of it dancing and being crazy! Last week we also went to the Hawkeye Homecoming Parade. Rocco is in love with the Bands and Herky! And much to my surprise and pocketbook JonDavid surprised me with tickets to the Iowa Vs Michigan football game. It was rockin! Lets just say the score was too close for comfort but a victory nonetheless. GO HAWKS! 6-0

JonDavids defense in on Monday!!! His 150+ dissertation hit the press last week.Yeah Dr. JD.. He can almost see the light. What an accomplishment!

Rocco is such a cool kid. Everyday he says the funniest things. Lately he is into saying,"My Mommy...My Daddy...My etc..." over and over. It's not annoying at all. He is doing so many great things. He jumped over a cone(kind of)m put on his velcro shoes on the right feet,and now can successfully turn on the TV to watch his favorite shows. He loves going to kiderecise and running around like an animal. He is a boy full full of energy.

Labor day was well spent in Minnesota with the Family. We will miss our little road trips.

We headed up north to MN for the 4th too. It was very eventful and the perfect 4th of July!

Celebrations back home in Utah. I miss my family and can't wait for Christmas.

I love these girls.. and so many of them are gone!!! BOO HOO!! Some of these pictures are dated over the 5 1/2 years in Iowa but I wanted to capture the pictures I had all together. I miss them all dearly. Friends are so great because I feel like I had special bonds in different ways with all these girls. They truly have been my family away from family. We have seen many friends come and go and here we still sit. Our days here are about over but the people we have became so close to will always be in our hearts. So I'll get my small talk all ready for meeting new girls in Indiana..watch out girls here I come.

A way belated birthday post for Rocco!

2009-09-03T11:30:00.000-07:00

Well Rocco has been 2 yrs old since May... so I'm once again way behind. I don't know why I insist on trying to catch up. I guess if you go off his due date in Augsut than I'm not really that far off. We gave Rocco a cozy coupe for his big day and 3 months later it is still a hit. He takes great pride in his ride and trys his best to shine it up with wet wipes, t-shirts, and rags! He kind of has a love/hate relationship with it because at times when he gets stuck in a jam he gets so fired up at it! We took Rocco to the Zoo in Omaha, Nebraska for his birthday. I think JD and I enjoyed ourselves just as much as he did. I remember going to this zoo when I was a school girl and seeing Big Ben the bear. We also toured the church history sites in Winters Quarters and Rocco for some reason thinks grass hills are slides. He insists on sitting on his bottom and trys to slide down. He is not one bit concerned about his grass stains he gets. Maybe I should get him an iceblock to sit on and he would have better luck:) For Rocco's birthday breakfast we took him to Mcdonalds and he was in heaven. We ordered him the Big Breakfast deluxe and he really chowed down. I still feel bad for not making him a birthday cake but luckily JonDavid scored a sweet homemade dome baseball cake a few weeks later. It was a fun trip and a great break. This was also a sad weekend because some of my bestest Iowa friends packed up and left me but that's a post for another day! Well Summer is now over and JD is busy a busy bee. Yesterday he went to school from 6:00 am-5:00 and then hit the books from 7:30-midnight. What a worker! Rocco graduated from his PACIFIER! I can't believe it. So long...farewell the big green soothie. We decided it was a natural transition to get rid of it when Rocco bit the top off!

Where we are headed to next!

2009-08-04T12:20:00.001-07:00

BE SURE TO WATCH ROCCO MAKE A BIG ANNOUNCEMENT...He'S learning big words every day!

WoW! I can't believe the decision has been made. I never in my wildest dreams thought I would settle down in Indianapolis, Indiana. After all I reallythink I was born to be a midwesterner! We feel really excited about our decision and think it will be a wonderful place for JonDavid to develop into a "workin man" and to raise up little Rocco! JonDavid will be working as a biostaticstian at Eli Lilly which is an enormous pharmaceutical company.yikes! He willl be more specifically working in the neurology division. He's as excited as JD gets about working. He is mostly excited to catch some Jazz/pacer games, broncos/colts,hit the links at the golf courses, attend the indy 500, and join the lily softball team. We are planning on moving to the northern suburbs in hamilton county. Which actually was just voted in 2008 "the best place to raise a family in the USA." according to forbes magazine and now according to Grandma Wheeler it will even be a better place because we are there!:)hahaha! She does a great job at boosting the ol'self esteem! I actaully don't feel scared or nervous at all.

We do know for sure that down in hoosier country we will forever be loyal to our Hawkeye Football team, but may give there basketball programs a cheer! We will look forward to coming back to Iowa City for a fall football game,touring the east coast, and getting acquainted with indiana~our future home!

But between now and then we have lots to get accomplished! While Rocco and I enjoy our final fall days in Iowa City... which I really do love! JD will be hitting the dissertation double time as well as improving his chalkboard skills teaching a stats course this fall.

Lots and Lots lays ahead in such a small window of time.

Camping with the Family 2009!

2009-07-28T05:43:00.000-07:00

While in Utah we went on the annual camping trip with the family. I was a little nervous to go since Rocco had yet another ear infection and was on round two of meds. I get so stressed when he's under the weather and worry about the rest he gets. Looking back I'm so glad we went. We love every opportunity we can get to be with the family. Rocco loves his cousins and is still talking about Uncle Zach's Boat. He sure went on a wild ride. Kallie toted Rocco around on his "leash" and grandpa and grandma were kind of enough to share the trailor with us. We camped in Heber. As always The boys went on a foggy golf outing bright and early while we slaved away in the kitchen and attended to the children! :)

Now that we are back at home Rocco will get in his coupe and we have this exact same conversation at least three times a day
Rocco gets in his coupe and says, "bye!"
I say," Where are you going?"
He is very to sure answer,"goin campin!"
I say," Fun, who with?
He says everytime , "Daddy and Uncle Harold!" Those two obviously must have been his favorite camping mates so much for the rest of us!

Time is just flying by. I have recovered from last nights bachelorette finale. I'm not at all crazy about her pick. I live for my monday nights! We have been soaking the rays at the pool,getting the house organized, and collecting lots of rocks from every where. This kids has a great eye for "Rocks" maybe its in his name. JD has been super busy interviewing for jobs and working double time at school to finish up his dissertation. We have exciting news coming your way very soon! Off to start the day!

Coolest Little Hawkeye On the Block!

2009-07-06T11:48:00.000-07:00

I don't think anyone would argue with me when I say this kid is by far the coolest kid on the block. You can't get much cooler than wearing black socks with brown velcro shoes accompanied with blue swim googles and some snug athletic shorts. This litte Hawkeye wears his IOWA clothes very proudly!. What a great sense of style. Needless to say my 2 year old has outgrown his 0-6month hawkeye clothes. We better plan a trip to the Hawk shop before football season starts.

March of Dimes 2009

2009-07-02T12:53:00.001-07:00

WoW...I can't believe it is July. I am so far behind with my blogging. I have so many events from the spring and fun times to post about. I know that old news is as good as no news, but I'll tell you about our past happenings anyhow. It will drive me crazy if I leave out some of our family events from the blog history!

March of Dimes!

You all know that we are huge supporters of the March of Dimes. This year just our little family walked in honor of babies. We waded our way proudly through the 6 miles in pouring rain. Rocco was very content as he munched on soggy popcorn and doritos as he rolled along wrapped up in his muddy, wet blanket. (So much for my early morning hair rollers and roundbrushing...the life of having fine hair )There was a picture memory board of Rocco along the walk for all to see of our little Champ. We are so proud of little Rocco and continually feel blessed to have him here with us today. I never knew that such a tiny tiny little boy could teach me so many important life lessons. Thanks for all the support and donations!

ROCCO'S FIRST CAN OF SODA

2009-06-16T12:16:00.000-07:00

Doesn't a picture truly tell a thousand words. This was Rocco's first can of pop(2yrs old)....NOT my idea. He said it was delicious and was in heaven. DROOL, WET SHIRT,STICKY HANDS and he loved every slurp he could get!

I have always been one to cringe inside whenever Rocco eats garbage (chips, licorice,suckers) and when he is a mess. Hence, when he eats in any form he is covered in a crayola art smock which nicely cover his arms all the way down to his toes. He is well trained and will request a bib if he doesn't have one and likes his hands clean. I hope I haven't created an obsession. I have been lecturing JD about this pop situation since this occasion. He says, " oh it won't hurt him!" I caught Rocco going for my can on the table. Before he never cared about the ol' tin cans. I'm super nervous to go home to our families who have pop capitol of the world in the garages! Rocco won't know what to do. I can already envision him standing in the garage with pop towers taller than him. I can hear him saying pleez, watching him as he emphasizes his please by swiping his hand over his belly to sign, licking his chops as his saliva glands get ready for a cool drink. He gets so excited for beverages. I guess they are "refreshing" as Rocco likes to put it.

Ok! So I have been the worst blogger this year. We've had a good time outside, celebrating Roccos big #2, and enjoying a true spring. I've also been very sad to say goodbye to many great friends who have moved on. I'll have to catch up sometime soon.

Easter Weekend

2009-05-14T11:26:00.000-07:00

2009-04-22T12:45:00.000-07:00

We went to the Wisconsin Dells for Spring Break it was only about 3 hours away and a great trip. We do have some "Lovely" snap shots of JonDavid and Hyrum in their best speedos. Both of them are known for their previous speedo photo shoots! Some of you have been fortunate enough to see! We will save them for another day, only if your lucky!!!

It finally now feels like spring! Happy Earth Day!!! This was always one of my favorite Days to teach school. We strayed away from our required basal readers and math curriculum to enjoy Mother Earth. I'm off to find an earth activity for Rocco and I!!! Enjoy

March For Babies 2009~You'll be in my heart!

2009-03-12T20:23:00.000-07:00

Although, it's been 22 months ago that Rocco was born... I often still think of his preemie days and life in the NICU. I know how truly blessed we are to have him in our lives with us today and I will never forget the lessons I learned as I sat quietly in the NICU with Rocco. I had lots and lots of time to think, ponder, and pray about life. We recognize that there are many families and too many moms and dads that know the heartbreak of having a baby born fighting to survive. Many who are so precious and close to us. My whole heart goes out to these families who have suffered a loss. As a family we are volunteering again this year, so other families like ours don't have to face the issues of prematurity, birth defects, and infant loss.
Last April about 40 of our friends joined our team "Rocco ~n~Roll" and participated in the 6 miles March of Dimes, March for Babies. We marched in honor of our little angels in Heaven my niece Olivia, my nephew Payton, and my dear friend’s son James, and our sweet Rocco. As a team we collected almost $700.00 to donate to the March of Dimes.In my heart I wanted to do something to help those who have suffered a loss and for families who have gone through the NICU experience like us. Throughout the walk many emotions overcame me: I felt sad for the loss of loved ones, peace of the knowledge these babies are in Heaven, and happiness knowing I was helping with a great cause. I have been undeniably touched and changed by the mission of the March of Dimes since May 17, 2007.

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Our Story
What was once a typical Friday night, quickly turned into the most worrisome night of my life? On May 11th my water broke at 28 weeks and I was told that I wasn’t leaving the hospital until I had a baby. On that day I was given 2 steroid shots to promote Rocco’s lung growth because they were not yet mature. Thankfully to the March of Dimes they have provided the research funding for these shot, which gave Rocco a better chance for life. On May 17th, after a scary delivery, Rocco weighed into this world at 2 pounds 9 ounces, we strained to hear his tiny cry over the commotion by our team of over 15 doctors and nurses. He was whisked directly over to a team of Neonatologists who were waiting for his arrival. Right at that moment our 76 day journey in the NICU had just began.
Hours later we met Rocco, although small and tiny, Rocco is a miracle. Rocco had some trouble breathing, so they gave him surfactant to open his lungs and placed him on a ventilator. Rocco endured many trials while in the NICU: he used a painful breathing apparatus the CPAP, he suffered from spells of apnea (pauses in breathing), tachypnea (rapid breathing), bradycardia (slowing of the heartbeat), and tachycardia (heart rate too fast), 2 blood transfusions, chest X-Rays, echocardiograms, acid reflux, hooked up to 7 machines and wires, not too mention the scars on his feet from the weekly blood draws and gases. Despite it all, Rocco’s sweet smile, his strength, support from the March of Dimes parent network, and the love from our Heavenly Father and families got us through.
Twenty one months later, Rocco can’t wait for his 6 mile stroller ride in the March for Babies in April. We are so thankful for the March of Dimes, and for the families that have walked before us giving our Rocco a fighting chance.

Please let me know if you would like to join our family team "Rocco~n~Roll" on April 18th at 8am in the March for Babies.
One day, all babies will be born healthy. But we have to walk to get there. All our Love,
JonDavid,Sarah, and Rocco
Your contribution will go to an important cause-giving every baby a healthy start.
If you would like to help our team goal please donate via our blog by clicking on the March of Dimes banner.

February Fun!

2009-03-03T13:12:00.000-08:00

Primary Prince
Rocco loves going to nursery at church. (I sometimes secretly wish he would care that we are leaving him for 2 hours but he doesn't! He's always been pretty brave and independent.) I appreciate his teachers and his cute friends in his class. It so amazing to see the sweet innocence of little children. Even though he is occasionally caught swiping potato chips from another buddy(sorry ian) and is really good at saying no! It drives me crazy! Rocco truly is such a special boy. He has an excellent eye for pictures of Jesus and is great at folding his arms for prayers as long as they are quick. His face lights up for primary songs and he can't get enough of popcorn popping. Here are some pics of Rocco in his sunday best! The one in the train vests crack me up! He would not smile the little rascal!

These Boots Are Made For Walking

Any Toddler needs to get themselves some fine snowboots if you live in Iowa. Although, we just recently purchased these wonders at a thrift store late in the season they have been worth every penny of our 5 bucks! They have hit it big time with Mr. Rocco. He loves his new boots. At first he was very hesitant to walk in these. He now has tromping down to a fine science! He takes great pride in feeding and grooming his rocking horse. His prefrence of food is wooden blocks.

Feel the Love
Llately the past holidays here in Iowa have been accompanied with spending countless hours of decorating for a church activity. My friend Brooke and I have become quite the team. Valentines Day was the most recent event we had social dancing and fondue at the church. I was a wall flower that night since JD was home with our sick little one. We had to get kind of creative with our decorating task. Who ever knew what you could pull off with clearance vases at walmart,fake flowers, 24 packages of kiwi strawberry jello for floral arrangements,plastic table cloths, and white lunch sacks! JD and I had an eventful

v-day with dinner at a mexican restaurant and trying to get Rocco feeling better.

I can't believe it's already March and the bachelor is over. What will I do without my exciting monday night out. We can't wait for sick season to be OVER and spring can't come soon enough!!

Rocco is now Quarantined to "Sanitation Hibernation"

2009-02-10T14:13:00.000-08:00

WIPED OUT!!!

I don't know how this little boy continues to be Happy and UPBEAT during the day! (I might add) After coming home from the doctor with theses ailments checked off his chart.

*respiratory syncytial virus aka RSV

I couldn't believe my ears when the doctor said these three letter RSV, my worst fear!

*Acute otitis media aka Ear Infection, again.

*VIRAL RASH
*ECZEMA

*LACK OF PHYSIOLOGICAL DEVELOPMENT aka UNDER WEIGHT<3rd>
It's no wonder why I felt the need... to go buy me some Mexi rolls, potatoe oles, and a huge DP after our 2 1/2 hr docotor visit. Wish me luck as I battle breathing treatments with my squiggly wiggly 21 month old. We love him and can only hope for a speedy recovery!

A Trip to John Deere

2009-02-05T12:20:00.000-08:00

One of our favorite things about living in Iowa has been taking little excursions to new sites close by. A great place to visit is the John Deere Museum in Moline, Illinois located on the Mighty Mississippi. It's always been a favorite for our guests. This is paradise for a little boy. Rocco was having the time of his life as he climbed in and out of the big combines and explored life as a junior farmer. Rocco was convinced that these tractors were on the move. He loved every minute of our trip to John Deere... the huge wheels,giant steering wheels, and not to mention his orange chocolate we picked up at a quaint candy shop and soda fountain "Lagomarachino"!

Christmas 2008

2009-01-09T09:08:00.000-08:00

A few of our 2008 favorite Christmas moments we won't forget

*Staying over night in Albert Lea, Mn on our way to the Airport because of horrific weather -28 and a blizzard. Good thing I packed the swim suits!

*Rocco singing "Jingle Bells" loud and clear

*The nativity production with the Andersen crew

*Sledding with the cousins and Roccos first Aggie Basketball game

*Sharing Cousin Olivia's cozy coupe and many other toys

*Enjoying all of our favorite "eats" back home

*Rocco holding Grandpa Sparks' hand also know as "BAHBOMBAH" to Rocco and going on a "walk" around the house.

*Parading up and down the streets banging pots and pans on new years.

We had a memorable Christmas and our looking forward to the new changes in 2009!

Christmas in the Amana Colonies

2008-12-15T14:15:00.000-08:00

Last weekend we took a little drive out to some old german colonies, Amana.

Despite the fact we froze ourselves as we walked around an old barn aka " The Tannenbaum Forest" looking at decorated christmas trees and I lost JD's fancy sunglasses... it was all worth it to get me a pastry at the bakery and to see a real life reindeer. I told JD I would use my Christmas money or get me a part time job to buy him new shades. Hmmm we will see about that. Enjoy our pics and animated scrapbook. It takes a second.

Autumn Adventure in Utah

2008-11-25T12:00:00.000-08:00

Rocco and I took an adventure to Utah at the end of October. We began the trip by staying at Aunt Cathy's house and playing with the kids. We then went to Logan and enjoyed every minute of our time. There really is no place like home and especially Grandma's house. We spent lots of time sitting around the "round table" at Grandpa and Grandma Wheelers chatting,gathering advice, and eating. I came home weighing 4 more pounds. Yikes. There were lots of fall activities and great food. We strolled the pumpkin walk, carved pumpkins with the family, and took a crazy late night visit to Taco Time and then to a haunted forest with Mom and Aunt Marilyn. Much to my surprise, Rocco thought it was super neat to see all of the spooks. It was so much fun to reunite with Karla, a great friend.It was nice to talk about each others lives, families, and happenings as we chased our little rascals at the park. Looking forward to our next getaway.

BIG NEWS!

2008-11-17T09:05:00.000-08:00

I'm so happy that today is a special day for Rocco. We must celebrate! He is officially 1 1/2 years old. Although, it's been 18 months since he was born... I still haven't forgotten the amazing boy he is. He still is a tough little guy,except when a toy is swiped from his hands or he falls and bonks! On Friday night, an old man at the restaurant kept smiling at Rocco. Rocco would wave and smile back. I think this man had it all right, as he left the Restaurant he came over and said, "You have one handsome and happy boy!" Rocco is always full of life!

CRAZY QUIRKS TAG!!

2008-11-12T19:51:00.000-08:00

My sister did a tag post about Quirks. Here are my crazy 7! I'm sure those of you who have lived with me could list a few more. I tag anyone who wants to join...you know the routine.

1. Addicted to Vicks and Mentholatum. I use it nightly to help catch my zzz's.My uncle John once told me I will die of mentholed lungs. Thanks mom. It's not funny when the roommates would steal it as a gag!

2.I will wake up and remake the bed if it feels unkept or messy.

3. I get the laundry to the washer pretty well, but as far as getting it to the dryer and out of the dryer well that is a struggle! We get along alright though.

4.I love to Quiz people about everything and ask Q's. I always need the scoop. I probably should have been a reporter or police.

5.I'm excellent at splashing water all over the mirror while washing my face..Thank goodness for JD and Windex!

6. Every night for years I have been sleeping with my hair in a pony tail using a super CUTE Gray Thermal Scrunchie that I collected from one of my sisters. I somehow have two of them if anyone would like one to use. I feel like the scrunchy is kinder to your hair than sleeping with an elastic...

7. My purse and green car are disasters. Somethings in life you just have to let your hairdown...

BONUS QUIRK! I follow all traffic laws very carefully and I'm terrified to drive on busy roads,heavy rain, and ice storms. I will avoid it at all costs!

Halloween Happenings!

2008-11-08T12:57:00.000-08:00

Halloween is a favorite time of mine to kick off the Holidays. This year was such fun with Rocco. Everyday he adds another new word to his vocabulary and discovers a new item to tinker with in our home. We sure enjoyed our Halloween festivities and Rocco was a perfect snail.

Happy Halloween!

2008-11-02T18:41:00.000-08:00

Rocco loved Halloween! This year Rocco was a little snail. When we came up with the costume idea he was crawling, but by the time Halloween arrived he is now a crazy walker and his speed is no longer anything close to a snail. However, he realized his costume was a little Tricky and Slippery to walk in on the Gym floor so he did resort to crawling around the party! He is a real expert at pointing out pumpkins and saying boo! He truly enjoyed gripping the candy in his hands, putting leaves in his Halloween bucket, and exploring in the dirt on Halloween! He had a great eye for any type of Sucker when he was choosing his candy out of someones bucket!Here are just a few photos of him and his costume! He is such a character!!! More to come of our other Halloween celebrations.

San Diego

2008-10-30T06:52:00.000-07:00

The last part of our trip we spent hitting the waves in San Diego. I must say I was a more skilled body boarder than JonDavid. I don't know how my form looked, but I was able to ride the waves farther. We had a grand time biking on Mission Blvd, eating breakfast on the beach, spotting dolphins, hiking at Torrey Pines, and visting "Little Mexico" at Old Town. We can't wait for our next trip to the beach.

The Happiest Place on Earth..

2008-10-14T08:54:00.000-07:00

While we were in California we spent 3 wild days at DisneyLand. October was a great time to be there short lines and less crowd. Rocco was not a fan of Eyore:( but loved all the other Disney Characters.

Hollywood,The Hills, Newport, and Laguna

2008-10-08T19:59:00.000-07:00

Part One of Our Vacation...Escape with us. It was a major bust after all my research on the Hot Spots as to where I could see my friends Lauren, Audrina,Heidi, and let's not forget Spencer. I saw no one, what a disappointment.

Buzz light year...to the rescue

2008-10-06T07:14:00.001-07:00

We are back from our big trip to Cali and so happy to be in our own beds and back to a routine!We had a blast. Rocco's loved the rides at Disney Land. The poor little boy had so much fun he would cry when we had to get off. Rocco and I were great space rangers...if you notice our score. We make a great team. More photos to come!

Busy Bees!

2008-09-18T08:57:00.002-07:00

Over the last month everyone in our house has been "BUSY BEES" From Lawn Care to Statistics, and Stampin Up!

Rocco~ Rocco's lawn care service! Rocco recently has become the best pusher! He loves to lean on objects and push. You name it ..he can push it. He can push trucks,remote controls,puzzle board, people,etc... A MIGHTY boy is he! He is now 16 months old loves to point, say uh-oh as he drops objects, and attempt head stands! His best words are baby,dada and mama. He is working on saying truck and car. Get him in the middle of the carpet and he can balance on his feet for a few seconds and inch One foot forward for ONE STEP!

Notice his sweet PJ's! According to JD stripes and sharks match well.

JD is his name and Stats is his game... After a year of stressing about his "big exam" it's done,over, and passed! What a huge sigh of Relief!

Business Woman~ I decided to start my first at home business, ha!ha! "Stampin Up" . It will for sure bring in big bucks for the family, yeah right! All of my spare time recently has gone into kicking off the business with designing cards and cutting lots of paper for card workshops and stamp club. I'm pretty sure when it's all said and done I will be in the hole, but it's all in great fun. There are so many fun stamps and supplies to buy. For all your stampin... needs you can call on me! Check out my website http://sparklers.stampinup.net

HOT! HOT! Summer Time!

2008-08-20T08:42:00.000-07:00

Rocco is having a great summer enjoying his sweet ride and cool shades. He is such a great little worker and mechanic! He loves to lift the hood and check for any problems.

For your next car service...you know who to call!!!

Rocco's Repairs!

Rocco caught in the Act!

2008-08-13T11:20:00.000-07:00

Rocco loves to just lay in his crib and quietly entertain himself as he soothes himself to sleep for naps. He will pacify himself for quite awhile and then eventually drifts off to sleep. Lately, I have noticed a trend... He is super quiet and then all of a sudden he is crying his head off. He will carry on for a while and then I go "rescue" him. Everytime I go in his room I find his pacifier and bear on the ground and he is sitting on his little bum or standing up in his crib next to the door hollering for Help. This little boy is too smart. I've figured him out! He is protesting his nap! In his efforts of refusal to sleep, he throws his comfort items out of his crib. He then realizes he no longer has them, he needs them, and so he tries to reach them. However, his little arms aren't long enough to sweep them off the floor and through the bars of his crib so his protest begins!!! He needs HELP! So I the loving mom...come and rescue my innocent child sitting on his bum crying in his crib for help.

Today I decided to give him 3 pacifiers in his crib. When I went into save the day I found his bear and 2 pacifiers on the ground and I caught him in the act of releasing his last and final pacifier.

SHEAR HAPPINESS!!

2008-08-05T19:36:00.000-07:00

~Rocco's much needed First Haircut~

July 6,2008

I got my first haircut as you can plainly see
I've Lost My Little Baby Look And Have A Brand New Look For Me!
My Mom says I look handsome and she is proud of me!
She kept a lock of hair
To remind her of this day
Another milestone I’ve crossed
In my life along the way!!

Rocco's First Haircut+ First Sucker=SHEAR HAPPINES!

Now And Then...

2008-07-31T11:35:00.000-07:00

Five years ago today, JonDavid and I walked out of the temple hand in hand after being married. I felt Thankful, Grateful , Blessed, and Amazed! One year ago today, JonDavid and I walked hand in hand with Rocco out of the hospital and once again I felt Thankful, Grateful, Blessed and Amazed. I know first hand how precious life is and our relationships with our families and friends. Today I feel so Thankful, Grateful, Blessed, and Amazed with my little family JonDavid and Rocco!

Now~ Summer of 2008 ~Then 10 years ago summer of 1998!

Then~ 1yr ago Rocco's Welcome Home Day. He is a little over 6 pounds. What a joyful day! We made it together and he was finally introduced to outside of the hospital walls... the world,fresh air, green grass, and hot humid iowa summer days and he would quietly sleep in his bassinet for short periods of time!

Now~Rocco is such a bright eyed and busy tailed 18 pound 1 year old who loves to stand up in his crib and do energizing leg bounces and then he finally crashes and will sleep for hours!

Proud to be an American...

2008-07-28T15:16:00.000-07:00

We had a great time on the 4th of July! We started the day with the annual coralville parade! We stocked up on lots of candy, popsicles, and bottled water! Rocco loved watching the cars and people go by... In the afternoon we had a bbq, slip~N~slide, and kiddie pools. I must admit I was a pretty good slider for being the only girl taking the risk. My body is a little older than my childhood days and I found a few bruises on my knees the following day! We ended the night with the HUGE firework display courtesy of coralville. I was a little nervous with the couple of explosions and balls of fire that didn't quite make it into the sky. Nonetheless, we celebrated the big red, white, and blue and held our heads high as we are proud to be americans and so thankful for our freedom and this beautiful land!

A trip down memory lane with Sarah

2008-07-22T14:27:00.000-07:00

So this is a new blogging game I decided to jump in on thought it was such a fun idea.
1. As a comment on my blog, leave one memory that you and I had together. It doesn't matter if you knew me a little or a lot, anything you remember!
2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty funny to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you. If you don't want to play on your blog, or if you don't have a blog, I'll leave my memory of you in my comments.EVERYBODY PLAY! I want to see what memories are out there!

Buddies! The young and the old

2008-07-20T21:03:00.000-07:00

After 18 months we were dying for our family and friends to meet little Rocco. It was so hard to keep such a huge blessing all to ourselves for so long! Rocco was so brave... meeting lots of new faces, giving hugs, and loves to his unfamiliar family members! We had such a wonderful time just being together with those we care for and miss so much when we are away. We can hardly wait for our next reunion! I have finally finished posting our lengthy Utah trip and will hopefully catch up to our "Live" life in the next few days! Stay tuned!

Friends from the Hood!

2008-07-16T20:05:00.000-07:00

Back at home JD and I always enjoy hanging out with the gang from the neighborhood. It is always so fun to talk about the good old days and enjoy each other's changing lives. We found out that Uncle Bill and Rocco share the same birthday! Even though we all take different paths in life, no matter where we go we take a little of each other everywhere... according to Laura B. No matter where JD and I go we will not forget our ROOTS! We certainly have had great times with our friends and look forward to many years ahead of us. Notice the goof..I mean ROCK STAR without his shirt on....

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Sparks' Camping Trip

2008-07-14T21:08:00.000-07:00

While in Utah we went camping with JD's family. We were for sure camping in style with his parents new trailer. I don't really consider myself much of a camper, but I must admit that camping Sparks' stlye is pretty luxurious and always a good time. I even treated myself to hot showers in the shower house each day! JonDavid enjoyed at least TEN rounds of golf while we were back home.

Slumber Party

2008-07-09T14:15:00.000-07:00

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It's not very often that the Andersen Family has a sleepover and it was a grand time!. We had a great time with each other. The kids played, cried, ran into each other, cried some more, and played more. I guess that is how it goes with 8 kids under the age of 5. I missed capturing pictures of the uncles! Sorry! The Adults had a great time eating,watching a movie at midnight in the theatre after kiddies in bed, 4 wheeling, and chasing kids!

Super Rocco celebrates being one again!!!

2008-06-26T15:16:00.001-07:00

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Princess+Cinderella=Sarah

2008-06-25T12:46:00.000-07:00

I really should be posting about my trip to Utah but that is too much work. Instead I took the disney princess quiz. After all I really am a princess and demand to be treated as such! HA!HA!! (right mom)

Sarah (Hebrew: שָׂרָה, "a woman of high rank") is the wife of Abraham as described in the Hebrew Bible. The Hebrew word Sarah indicates a woman of high rank, and is sometimes translated as "princess" or goddess, or "high holy one".

Dignified and hard working. With a gentle and soft-spoken manner you have something many people don' t!

Too Much Birthday Cake or sweet potatoes!!

2008-05-22T19:15:00.000-07:00

It seems like lately at our house we can't stay healthy. For the last 3 weeks someone has been sick from Rocco's runny nose/fever,to JD's unproductive cough, to my sore throat and raspy voice, and now back to Rocco for a Belly Ache. Tonight, I was enjoying my dance show with a friend and I get an emergency phone call from JD and this is what I came home too.

Rocco's Big Mistake
This is the story of Rocco .One day Rocco made a big mistake.
He ate a piece of birthday cake.
It caused him to shiver,
It caused him to shake,
It caused him to get a tummy ache.
Rocco went to the doctor down by the lake.
The doctor said, "Rocco, don’t eat cake."

Rocco clearly threw up all over his face, floor, and our precious lazy boy!!!...This is not from face planting in it. What a little champ, smiles and all! I bet our families in Utah can't wait for us to come:)

Happy, Happy, Birthday Rocco Dear!!

2008-05-17T21:40:00.000-07:00

Wow! I can't believe our little Rocco-Bear is one years old! Time has gone bye way too fast. I am so amazed at how much a little boy can experience in just one year of his life. Each day brings new milestones and more happy moments. Although Rocco has a serious face he is truly full of sweet smiles, a loving heart, and a fiesty, spirited nature! Rocco is happiness! We love our little Rocco so much and I'm so thankful everyday for his might!~

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Happy Mother's Day!

2008-05-11T16:02:00.000-07:00

As I reflect on my first Mother's Day... Many thoughts come to my mind,joy in my heart, and tears in my eyes. It's hard for me to let this day go by and not express how I'm feeling today! A year ago today I went into preterm labor at 28 weeks. Recently I have been thinking about laying on the bed in the triage center when a doctor told me that I won't be going home until I have my baby. It was too early! I didn't really know the road that was ahead of me or what it was like to be a mother of a preemie. At that moment I felt very scared, alone, and worried. Although time has passed I can still vividly remember the way I felt that night.
Over the next few days I layed on "bed rest" and was under constant supervision for infection....IV's, shots, regular temp check, hooked up to monitors, ultrasounds,etc... I never realized how exciting it was to go on my first wheel chair ride after laying in bed for a few days. Tears filled my eyes when I got to go to the outside terrace for fresh air and sunshine with JonDavid and my dad. As I continued to "rest",

Photo above- Rocco' s first day

Photo below-Bed Rest

I had lots of time to think and worry and wait. I began to realize that I was being watched over by my Heavenly Father.I would often turn to him for help. I found myself in bed reading over and over a church talk by Bonnie Parkin: Gratitude:path to happiness. My feelings about the situation quickly changed . I was overwhelmed by peace and comfort that things would be ok. Although I was going through a difficult time I had many blessings to be thankful for. I began to understand that mercy and blessings come in different forms. I needed to be thankful for all things- good things,bad things, not just somethings.
One year later I can truly say I'm thankful for ALL things I have and I have experienced in my life. They have made me stronger. On my first mothers day...I'm most greatful to be sweet Rocco's mom. JonDavid and I are so lucky to have him entrusted to us!

He truly is our one bright shining hope!

Happy Mother's Day to all! Thank you to all moms and grandma's in my life for always showing me love,encouragment, and happiness. Thanks for being you! I love you all!!

Enjoy watching our trip to St. Louis Video Scrapbook (click on arrows to scroll through pages quicker)

2008-05-06T15:37:00.000-07:00

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Thank You March of Dimes and Team Rocco N' Roll

2008-04-22T14:52:00.000-07:00

Beginning in 1934, the fight against polio began. Lively fundraising parties were organized in cities throughout the United States just as the country emerged from the Great Depression. At times when individuals were their poorest many sacrificed DIMES in the fight against polio. This mission began by FDR ands was later turned over to Eddie Cantor. Eddie Cantor had this catch phrase on the radio…“The March of Dimes will enable all persons, even the children, to show our President that they are with him in this battle against this disease. Nearly everyone can send in a dime, or several dimes. However, it takes only ten dimes to make a dollar and if a million people send only one dime, the total will be $100,000.” Years later the polio epidemics in the United States swiftly abated. With that success, the Foundation changed its mission to birth defects prevention in 1958, and in 1979 it officially changed its corporate name to the March of Dimes Birth Defects Foundation. We are so blessedbecause of the people who have sacrificed their knowledge and money in order to give Rocco and all babies a healthy start to life.

JonDavid, Rocco, and myself are so thankful for everyone supporting the March for Babies 2008! As family and friends we had an amazing time on our Saturday march. We were surrounded by awesome friends, great weather, and our amazing super star Rocco. Indeed every dime helped this effort. Our Team Rocco N' Roll collected just under $700.oo! I was so happy to see some of our favorite Nurses from the NICU and to share this special event with another NICU family team Little Line and their amazing super star Caroline. Rocco made our family famous again. Here is a press release from our local paper about the Little Rocco David? http://www.press-citizen.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2008804200311
Thank You Mergen Orthodontics for sponsoring our family, our SWEET t-shirts!, and sponsor station in the ped mall!!

Learning Lots at Eleven Months!

2008-04-17T18:16:00.000-07:00

Enjoy our lengthy movie...Rocco Eats a Cracker!

I can hardly believe our little Rocco Bear is eleven months today. We love him so much and the joy he brings to our home is immeasurable. He is turning into such a big boy! Rocco has a very inquisitive and sprightly personality. Everyday he discovers a new wall to roll into, hunts for a new tag to suck on, and rummages through his toys for a book to inspect. This past month has been full of discovery and many firsts for him...

*After 11 months of "sanitation hibernation" Rocco went to church for the first time. One gal said, " I didn't know you had a baby!" Surprise, Surprise for her!

*Rocco rode in his stroller in public for the first time with the canopy off, no car seat to sit in or blanket over top! He's free at last!

*Rocco has 2 big boy bottom teeth!

*Rocco relaxed on the grass and watched the cars and clouds pass by.

*Rocco chowed down on his first cracker.

Rocco is developing and progressing so well. He is still working on sitting up and sleeping through the night.

Grandma's Cuddle Best!

2008-04-08T13:35:00.000-07:00

Grandma (Mamma's ma) came to visit a few weeks ago. Can't you tell where I get my round cheeks? We have sure missed her company since she has been gone. It was so exciting to see grandma! I was on my best behavior for her visit. It had been 8 months since I last saw her. When I saw her last I was only 4 pounds and was a sick little boy. I looked like this...
Boy, I am really growing up fast and oh so healthy! While Grandma was here we did lots of cuddling together, eating, making cards, and relaxing. I can't wait to see her again soon. I love you grandma!

We are proud to present our new nephew Maxxwell James

2008-03-29T15:35:00.001-07:00

I'm so excited to announce the arrival of my new nephew Maxx! He truly is a little miracle and we are so lucky he is finally here and healthy. I love the pure joy in Ashlie's eyes when she met her little Bro Maxx for the first time! Congratulations to my big sis Stephanie, Big T, and Ashlie Brooke! We are so happy and can't wait to meet him!!!!

Hoppy Easter

2008-03-24T12:36:00.001-07:00

On Easter morning Rocco was so excited about his first easter basket. He loved scrunching the bright purple grass in his hands, chewing on plastic eggs,watching his new Elmo Springtime Movie accompanied with a mini- elmo backback, along with a few easter stories and of course a plush easter bunny. For weeks, JonDavid has been searching every store for a very special gift for Rocco. He finally presented Rocco with his first toy ball on Easter morning. A new skill to practice... Let the rolling begin!

Happy St.Patricks Day!!

2008-03-17T15:01:00.001-07:00

Little Leprechaun

Today Rocco celebrated his 10 month birthday and St.Patricks Day. We started our morning with a green eggs and green pancake breakfast. I don't think I've gone a year without a green breakfast. I think I have a little bit of my mother in me when it comes to Holidays! Rocco then got dressed in his St. Patties day duds and headed to the university to surprise JD with a SHAMROCK shake. The day will not be complete without a corned beef, cabbage, carrots, and potato dinner. May the LUCK of the Irish be with you all. Happy St.Pats Day!

Baby Boy meets Baby Girl

2008-03-11T21:32:00.000-07:00

After 4 1/2 cold, long, and germy winter months, Rocco finally had a get together with his little buddy!!! He was pretty reserved and wasn't so sure if it was really ok for him to be out with the little people.(As you can tell from his looks of deep thought and concentration) It was so much fun to see him interact with someone other than us. Rocco was so mesmerized by another little person. He laid and just stared at his friend. He watched her flip from her back to tummy and arch her back like an otter. That day Rocco could barely hold his head up for just a few seconds and then he had to put it down to catch a rest. He gradually warmed up to her and he would reach his hand out to touch her and then he put his arm around her and stared at her face. I think he decided that she's all right! His playtime with his buddy paid off because it has inspired him to act like an otter himself. As of now he can't get enough of his new trick rolling over and over every which way.

Peep! Peep! Peep!

2008-03-05T20:23:00.001-08:00

Rocco has the best fuzzy hair!~ He reminds me of a little Spring Chick! His hair is so funny because it just sticks straight up. Today he was laying under his gym mirror and he was cracking up over and over again. He either was laughing at his fuzzy head or having fun with little angels. Recently, Rocco gets such a kick out of playing with his toes and tearing off his socks. He also has figured out "leverage" and how it really helps him to get out of seats he is tired of sitting in or a bottle he would rather not drink. He looked springy and bright today! I can't wait to take him outdoors.

Keep your motivation going strong!

2008-02-26T19:34:00.000-08:00

Last October I started my 2nd go at Weight Watchers. I was so thrilled to start my new healthy living. Well many weeks later the instructor suggests that I take a quiz to discover what kind of eater I am? HMMMM, that tells you how it's been going. I love quizzes, but not to tell me about my eating habits. Nonetheless, every Tuesday I insist on going with my special friends to our weekly weigh in and pep talk. During the last 6 weeks, I have been going back and forth between 2 pounds. I weigh in and gain 2, the next week I drop 2 pounds and Kate the instructor says, "Nice Recovery" and the vicious cycle continues. So if anyone is looking to keep around 2 pounds try Sarah's Exercise/Healthy living program, guaranteed results.If you actually want to see the 2 pounds be gone forever try the 2nd choice.

Sarah's Exercise/Healthy Living PROGRAM

1. Beating around the bush.

2. Jumping to conclusions.

3. Climbing the walls.

4. Swallowing my pride.

5. Passing the buck.

6. Throwing my weight around.

7. Dragging my heels.

8. Pushing my luck.

9. Jumping on the bandwagon.

10. Running around in circles.
I've recently came across an even better program at Weight Watchers that will actually help me feel healthy, happy, and balanced. I think it useful for many things in life.

Top 10 Attitude Enhancers to Keep your mind focused on your goals. Here's how:
1. Celebrate the here and now. As long as you're committed to your plan today, you're succeeding because you're taking charge of your life. Focusing on goals that are far in the future can sap motivation.
2. Change your language. Keller suggests scratching negative phrases from your vocabulary. Instead of saying "No," "I can't" or "I'll try," substitute the positive. Say: "Yes!" "I can" and "I will."
3. Create visual inspiration. Find a photo of yourself before you started your weight-loss plan. Tack it on the refrigerator, a bedroom or bathroom mirror or inside the food cupboard. As you reach new goals, take new pictures, visually marking your progress.
4. Weigh in. Weigh in at your weekly meeting, and keep a chart of the results. Look at your overall progress and visualize that chart whenever you're tempted by less-than-healthy choices.
5. Partner up. Exercising with friends is always more enjoyable. Schedule days to meet with your partner, and if one of you tries to bow out, act as the other's conscience.
6. Steer clear of sabotage. Avoid people who put you down.

7. Set mini goals. By setting realistic goals, you're more likely to reach them, feel successful and move on from there.

8. Reward yourself. When you've reached a goal (and remember to keep them small), you deserve a treat. Buy new clothes, a book or CD, or take yourself to a movie or sporting event.
9. Keep reminders in plain sight. Treadmills, bicycles, weights, even sneakers and exercise outfits should be left where you can see them.

10. Read success stories. Motivation often comes from reading about the way others have found success. Just think: "One day the story is going to be mine!"

**Sooner than later I will be a lifetime member of WW if I can only keep my motivation going strong! **

Happy Presidents' Day!

2008-02-18T12:47:00.000-08:00

JonDavid and I often wonder what Rocco will be when he grows up? So far he is in the running to be a politician, who also plays the organ pedals with his lively kicks, sings in the choir with his exquisite voice, and writes the latest news report fostered by his curiosity.

Baby George Washington

To Love and Be Loved

2008-02-14T15:18:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentines Day!

Today I have been thinking a little about what it is like to love and be loved.

Throughout this past year the word love has brought about a whole new meaning to me. Love is serving others, letting your spouse enjoy personal hobbies,holding a sleeping preemie for hours on end, day after day, knowing you can be together as a family forever,teaching your child, cuddling, and spending time with each other. Being loved to me is feeling happy, comfortable, worthwhile, and peaceful. I'm so thankful that JonDavid,Rocco, and my family allow me to feel loved!

Mr.Golden Sun

2008-02-08T20:19:00.000-08:00

Mr.Golden Sun, Please shine down on me!
Oh how we wish in our household if we were only doing a little bit of this..

Rocco sun bathing under the bili lights and plastic wrap to keep warm and toasty.

1 day old , 2.9 pounds,14 inches

I love this picture of him with his cool shades

However, at approximately 7 am on February 2, 2008 the world discovered Punxsutawney Phil's weather prediction...he sees his shadow - predicting six more weeks of winter! UGH!

Someday it will be warm...

Stand a Little Taller

2008-01-29T11:41:00.000-08:00

This morning as I sit inside staying warm from the blizzard my heart has been full since the passing of the prophet of my church President Gordon B. Hinckley. President Hinckley has left us with a great legacy of hope. At age 97 he stayed vibrant until the end. This great man has left us, but he hasn't left us alone. He has left us with guidance, wisdom and counsel for all of us. . . . He has set our standards high and has asked us to stand a little taller, to be strong, to do right regardless of the consequences and we will be blessed for doing so. I will always remember his great example of optimism and his encouragement to be a little better.

My True Color!

2008-01-25T09:01:00.000-08:00

So this morning I took a quiz to divulge my true color? It seems to be the popular thing to do on your blog. Everytime I have taken a color quiz I have turned out to be a yellow. I am now a green. Hmmm! Maybe my ways are chaning as I get older or maybe it's because Rocco was born in May and emerald is his birthstone. Who knows? But I reallly just think everday is different and this morning I am having a green moment. I'm sure JonDavid is laughing at this post because about 4 hours ago when I laid back down after little R had been up from 4:45-6:30 I don't know how green I was feeling. But we survived. I must not be feeling too bad since I'm blogging and not resting while he naps.

Here is my description of being GREEN!

You're green, the color of growth and vigor. Good-hearted and giving, you have a knack for finding and bringing out the best in people. Green is the most down-to-earth color in the spectrum — reliable and trustworthy. People know they can count on you to be around in times of need, since your concern for people is genuine and sincere. You take pride in being a good friend. For you, success is measured in terms of personal achievement and growth, not by status or position. Rare as emeralds, greens are wonderful, natural people. It truly is your color!
http://web.tickle.com/color/index.jsp?testname=colorogt&resultid=C

Winter Wonderland!

2008-01-22T09:10:00.000-08:00

JonDavid, Rocco,and I are surviving Iowa's frigid winter. It really isn't that bad this year because I'm not blowing my whistle at first graders to stop throwing snowballs or sliding on the ice. We are spending lots of time at home with Rocco hibernating. I know I shouldn't keep counting the days when we can enjoy a normal life with Rocco. It will be nice not to worry about him getting sick, I really can't wait for the RSV/sick season to be over. My hands are so chapped from sanitation and the cold. Despite it all, it's so worth it to keep Rocco strong and healthy. We have had a great time with JonDavid off of school. We purchased a new vacuum, Rocco helped JD study, transferred Rocco from sleeping in his bassinet to his crib( now he is 8 months old-I was having separation issues) ,went out to dinner for our own sanity, and did lots of RELAXING!

Rocco's First Christmas

2008-01-13T19:09:00.001-08:00

We certainly did have a very Merry Christmas indeed. This year we weren't not allowed to travel by plane in order to keep Rocco healthy. After much contemplation, we decided if everyone was well then we would venture up to the Twin Cities to see our family. It was a great time for all. We played an exciting game of deal or no deal,bingo, watched movies, ate, and enjoyed time together. Christmas morning JonDavid came in great style wearing a very special Christmas vest, handmade by Gramms. Rocco recieved many presents, his favorite is a solid bright blue telephone rattle. Three weeks later and he hasn't lost his shake yet. Not too mention Grandpa and Grandma watched Rocco so we could go shop at the Mall of America. Rocco loved watching the fire glow, squirrels scurry up the trees, and Toby the puppy walk around him. Rocco was such a show off with his charming smile and personality. He can brighten up everyone around him. I love the Holiday season and it was especially wonderful this year to be able to have little Rocco with us. It's fair to say that it was a getaway that we all needed and we are so thankful for our families hospitality!

Snap, Crackle, Pop

2008-01-07T15:55:00.000-08:00

A few weeks ago Rocco had his first chance to chow down. He loves Rice cereal. His first bites were a disaster because he was spitting it out with his tongue and he just didn't know what to do. He loves to slurp the cereal off the spoon as it blows all over his face and us. Not to mention, it even tastes better when it's licked off his fingers. Rocco recently just got his first big throne to sit and veg out in, his high chair. Today he discovered how to make a rasberry, so watch out if you are within 2 feet of the little rascal. So far he has now savored every bite of his sweet potatoes, carrots, and squash. Little does he know there is a whole palette of more to come.

Strong Military, Strong Economy, Strong Families

2008-01-02T19:41:00.000-08:00

Caucus For Mitt!

Every Vote Counts!

JonDavid, Rocco, and I have really been hitting up the Political trail. We took the opportunity to visit Huckabee, Romney, and O'Bama. I have had the chance to shake hands with Huck, Ann Romney, and Mitt as I greeted him with a,"Hello Mr.President." I really humored myself.

The most exciting element of our political adventure is JonDavid and Rocco getting a personal photo with Mitt and Ann. During their photo many other cameras were flashing at the same time. I was so nervous I accidently turned the camera off instead of taking the photo. Mitt was pretty sharp and one step ahead of me, he let me know about my blunder. It even gets better JD and Rocco are nationally famous. They were filmed on CNN, MSNBC nightly news, and our local news. We have videos for proof. I knew once they saw Rocco they were for sure to get some press. You can View them on http://iowansforromney.blogspot.com/ and click on the video link as well. As of the now the news is hot and the race is heated. The race to the whitehouse is on!

Happy New Years!

2008-01-01T09:18:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year!

"Make it great in 2008"

We wish you a Happy New Year from our house to yours. Last night we had a wild night as we rang in the New Year together. We started out the night with a traditional mexican dinner from Carlos O'Kellys. Rocco loved gripping onto the party horns, but wasn't so sure about their obnoxious tooting.

JonDavid and I played an exciting game of LIFE. We discovered what our future has in store for us. JonDavid was a college graduate who became an accountant As for myself I was a police officer who earned $40,000 and lived life to the fullest in my Victorian Mansion. I was a big spender. In the end JonDavid's frugal ways paid off as he swept the game and retired at the Millionaire estates. We rocked in the New Year with JonDavid pulling out his smooth dance moves. They are sure to never be forgotten. We greatly missed our annual trip to El Torro Viejo and the company of our dear Logan friends. We hope you have a great 2008!

Happy Birthday Mom!

2007-12-29T19:51:00.000-08:00

I'm the luckiest girl in this world! Why, because I have such an amazing mom! Here are the top ten reasons why I'm so lucky to have her for my mom...

10-Growing up my mom was my personal taxi cab. She was constantly taking me to school, dance class, and all around town on Friday and Saturday nights to friends houses. She always had a smile, even when I would have her come get me at 12:30 at night and ask her to haul a few friends home.

9-Almost a few times a month from junior high to high school she was always willing to host a fun filled sleepover for my friends and I. She never complained about listening to 15 girls or more in her basement just having fun all night long. The nights were never without pizza and treats.

8-Everynight (even when I was 17) I would lay in bed and yell for her to come turn off my light, kiss me goodnight, and tell me she loves me. When she tucked me into bed all of my troubles and fears drifted away. I never thought I would make it away from home without her warm goodnight hugs.
7.Who has a mom style her hair up through 9th grade. I'm that lucky girl. Thanks mom, I know it was hard to let your baby girl do her own hair. It's no wonder I only can do my hair one way.

6.I'm pretty sure that my friends like Susie as much as me. She was always such a hit with all the gals.

5.She is quick to forgive and never holds a grudge.

4. She has unconditional love for her children and family. No matter where our lives take us she is always our #1 fan and support.

3. She is witty and humorous. Loves to dance around the house and sing in the morning. She's got the best kicks!

2. She is always up for a trip to the store to with her daughters to browse... and I mean browse. The trips are not without a burger on the way home.

1.For a lady who has had her fair share of trials she continues to spread joy to everyone she is around and works on keeping those she loves happy.

Mom, you are Simply The Best!
I love you!

chocolate, crisco, cookies, and more!

2007-12-18T11:22:00.000-08:00

Last night as I layed in my bed I kept having visions of cookies dancing in my head. Yesterday my friend Allison and I got together to make holiday treats for over 30 friends. It was so much fun baking goodies because I was surrounded with good company. I didn't even notice what I was doing, I just kept rolling out the dough and frosting more and more cookies.

We only stopped to feed the babies and eat a delicious Italian Salad, compliments to the food network and Allison the Chief chef. Rocco and Caroline were so entertained by each other. Rocco just kept staring at Caroline as she kicked back and relaxed in her swing. I think he was a little jealous and wishes he could just kick back and chill. Instead he has a little more of an inquisitive nature and doesn't like to relax much or at least has a hard time doing so.

Overall we had an exciting day in the kitchen. It was so tempting not to lick the knife as I was frosting cookies. Instead I saved that for Allison's little girl Rachel to discover on her own. At one moment my wandering eyes captured her taking a quick lick in hopes no one was watching. Don't worry my cookies were already frosted!

Baby, It's Cold Outside

2007-12-14T13:47:00.000-08:00

Wow, It has been a cold winter so far in Iowa. On Monday we were hit hard with another ice storm. This is a spectacle I had never seen until 4 winters ago. Even though it is dangerous for traveling and scary if you loose power, it sure is beautiful. The ice is so amazing, it looks like lace as it forms to the trees. I'm awed at the simplicity of how this graceful cardinal perches on an icy branch.On Monday night at the beginning of the storm instead of sleeping at 1 am we were methodically climbing up the icy hill in our escort because we had to take poor Rocco to the ER. He has a little stomach bug and his bowels were backed up, which was causing him to throw up after each feeding. Now it's Friday, Rocco is feeling better and I'm ready to hit the stores for some last minute Christmas shopping. I've only just begun. When I go out shopping for others... I find something for myself instead. Everytime JonDavid asks with what money are you going to buy that. Everytime I say Grandpa Hancey's money. It's amazing how far Grandpa Hancey's $20.00 has stretched this year. The funny thing about this is that I haven't even recieved gift money yet. Everyone is still deciding wether I have been naughty or nice?

Wanted! Mustache Model

2007-12-10T11:03:00.000-08:00

Dear Dearest Family and Friends,I send you these pictures with one request, I know this is asking a lot,but please refrain from selling these photos on ebay for a profit. I know that JD has model potential and has a good image for baseball cards, nascar, and cigarettes, but as of now his agent has not contacted anybody.I hope these pictures help you all have a great Monday! JonDavid was so proud of his mustache he even wore it to school and church. His classmates thought it was velcro. This is why I love JD he is so funny and really knows how to enjoy life!

We'll miss you Carly!

2007-12-07T08:54:00.000-08:00

Friends,Fun, and Fondue! The word fondue wasn't in my vocabulary until I moved to Iowa. Over the past few years my friends and I have had fondue sometimes two times a week. It was dependent on how many TV shows were on that week. We dip a variety of items from cinnamon bears to bannanas and don't forget the Nutter Butters. A personal favorite. Last night we had one last girls night out before our dear friend Carly leaves us. It was such a great time we chatted, ate treats, and played cards. I know my friends don't believe me, but one of these days I will know the rules to the card games. After playing the same games over and over, I always need a refresher course before we play. Trust me... I'm smarter than I come off.
I will really miss Carly when she is gone.(Carly on the left in black/orange hoodie) She has always been such a fun spunky friend. I love how Carly will just drop by to visit for 10 minutes and then she goes home an hour or more later. We always have lots of exciting stories for each other. Most of all Carly, I will miss watching you out my window as recline in the Lazy Boy and keep eye on the complex.:) We love you Carly and you will be missed! Good thing you won't be too far.

Handsome Fox!

2007-12-05T08:23:00.000-08:00

Look at this handsome fox!! I just can't get enough of little Rocco. I just want to cuddle him all day. He would rather be bobbing around his head to make sure he isn't missing any action in the house. Anytime he hears a new noise he looks all around to figure out where that noise came from. It is so funny. I think sometimes he never figures out the mystery noises. Thanks Aunt Karen for such a cute outfit and Heather for his adorable winter hat.!
Mr. Serious

My Paci is as big as me and sometimes I don't get my own way!

Banquet Crashers

2007-12-01T15:44:00.000-08:00

A few weeks ago, my friend Allison saw a clip on the local news about a "summit" for preemies that was open to the public. The news caster made it very clear that it was open for the public. So Allison (the great mom of Caroline, Rocco's buddy in the NICU) and I loaded our little ones in her van and drove to the local hotel where this "anyone is invited" meeting was being held. We walked in and immediately say a table of name tags, a huge buffet and a room full of people dressed in nicer clothes than we were in...WE COULD OF DIED! (Allison was a little nervous, but I had no shame and said, "let's do it!") We walked into an elegant ballroom which was a fancy luncheon meant for nurses and doctors. They were eating before an afternoon of meetings with other doctors presenting research on preemies. It was so official. A very kind lady greeted us, reassured us we could be there, let us make a name tag and invited us to eat. Allison and I stood at the doorway of this fancy room, and LOTS of people were looking at us,we were deciding how to quietly make our grand entrance. Then all of a sudden, I saw Becky Rocco's favorite nurse practicioner come running to greet us. She was beaming from ear to ear. She gave me a huge hug. Before I could even remind her about hand sanitation... she had dived into the baby stroller and was getting baby Rocco out. In the NICU Rocco gave Becky alot to think about, he kept everyone on their toes. I love Becky. The whole time I was holding back tears, my heart is so full of love for all of the nurses and doctors who cared for Rocco.

Allison and I did get a chance to talk with a mom who is in charge of our local March of Dimes chapter about our stay in the NICU. She wanted to know how things could of been better, but there wasn't much we could say. So many things were just right. We did give her a few suggestions...mostly just things she noticed when she was there, too. I signed up to volunteer for March of Dimes and can't wait to help out with their organization.

Last of all, I have to give a shout out...even if its the very last day of November...because it is Preemie Awareness Month. The March of Dimes was behind this meeting. This is an organization that has made a difference for so many families, especially mine. I never imagined in a million years that after participating in the 6 mile March of Dimes walk in honor of my nephew Payton that I, too, would benefit from their services only one month later with my own preemie . March of Dimes provides so many things, including the research funding behind the steroid shot I received for Rocco's lungs and for surfactant...the drug Rocco received right after his birth to open up his lungs. If you are interested in learning more about The March of Dimes, please visit their website at marchofdimes.com

Thanks Allison for being such a great supportive friend. The banquet crashing will be a memory I will always cherish.

Oops, She did it again!

2007-11-28T11:11:00.000-08:00

Today I was driving home from taking JD to school and I was enjoying the warm holiday spirit I felt as I listened to my around the clock holiday tunes...And what to my wondering ears should hear, but the wonderful news of Ms.Britney Spears. Congrats Britney on baby #3. She's crazy, need I say more.

Look Who's Six Months Old!

2007-11-19T10:33:00.000-08:00

Happy 1/2 Birthday Rocco!

Look Who’s Six Months Old!
I can not believe that Rocco is six months old. He is such a fun little boy. We love him so much. Over the past six months I have had many moments alone with just Rocco where I have sat in quiet rooms holding him and wondering what is ahead of us. He came into the world so small but his impact has been huge. He has taught me many lessons about life.
1-Cherish each moment with Rocco and JonDavid.
2-Holding Rocco is holding a little piece of heaven.
3-I may never get a full night of rest again. Get over and get on with my day.
4-Do what works for us.
5-Each night it would break my heart leaving Rocco in the NICU, I quickly learned that Heavenly Father will watch over Rocco and that all things are in his hands.
6-Whenever I am blue, down, or sad I try completing this sentence, “Today I am gratfeul for…”

Rowko,Rocko,Rollo or is it Rocco?

2007-11-15T11:23:00.000-08:00

ROCCO,roko,n,Origin:Italian derived from the Celtic Hrokr, "of high stature; large, strong,and brave."v.

Many ask why Rocco? There is not a doubt in my mind that this little boy was meant to be named Rocco. He has certainly lived up to his name over the past 6 months. In order,to help protect Rocco's lungs from RSV he gets a synagis shot each month in his chubby thigh. The loving nurses come to our house. Each time they weigh him, calculate and measure his dose, and then give him a poke. Rocco was such a big boy he didn't cry until the circus band-aid was being applied to his thigh. I don't know if he was crying from the shot or from the silly band-aid? Well Rocco, enjoy your pain free thighs until next week when the needles come back out for your 6 monthers.

ROCCO the BRAVE-11lbs 6 ounces

It wasn't so bad after all!

2007-11-07T15:02:00.000-08:00

JonDavid and I are happy to join the world of blogging. After much conversation about creating our blog, we now present ONE SHINING MOMENT. Everyday I realize how much JonDavid and I are alike. Over the past 10 years we have rubbed off on each other. I see a little of both of us in one another. Now that little Rocco has joined our family, he fits right in. He looks lots like dad and has my personality.(according to JD) As we continue to venture through life it will be interesting to see how we each grow and change individually, yet continue to be like each other. We now invite our family and friends to enjoy our shining moments through our family blog! It doesn't get more shining than this adorable peacock!